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I have a pretty high voice for an #amab. Anything with a mic makes that even more pronounced. Recent convo I had on a #discord voice channel:
Them: I'm confused, are you male or female.
Me: you can use any #pronouns you like. It doesn't matter to me.
Them: ehr... alright. I don't get it ... are you a man or a woman?
Me: I'm born with a penis, if that matters to you in the context of playing an #mmorpg together.
Them: *absolute silence*

To their credit: they haven't changed how they treat me.

Okay what is the secret to eating/drinking literally anything while wearing lipstick/gloss?

Also I got this lip-plumping stuff but the applicator doesn't work for crap. Used a q tip and think I got too much on, lil redness around the lips but they're def plumper. Wish this stuff lasted multiple days, I'd pay more for it if it did too, daily/many times a day is ughf

Anyone here come out at work? Dunno what steps to even take. We're a blue city but in a red state, no idea the average sentiment but there's definitely republicans here, bleh

Was just going to wait for my name change and see what happens but they're really dragging their feet on my deed which I need to finish it, might need to sue IDK

#trans#queer#amab

Ok so, I've never had long hair in my life, I have no idea how long it takes, I dunno what to ask for at the stylist or anything at all, what do

IDK if my hair even can grow much longer? This is like 2 months of growth and I'm just at like, "beatles cut" level of hair

thinking about bleaching it yellow-blonde too. Just something reasonably "girl" to start with

#trans#amab#queer

Keeping two sets of easy to put on Guy Clothes on the first floor of my house in case I need to answer the door as a guy.

Being trans is just like being a secret agent except without all the people trying to kill you.

Hmm okay maybe that part is a little similar too

#lgbt#trans#queer

Anyone have frank personal experiences with trans-related 'cosmetic' surgery?

I'm very discouraged from any of it after like 30 decades of "eewwww she's so plastic" but I can't really tell how much of that is good ol' fashion sexism and anti-survivorship bias of people who get bad/too much stuff looking obviously bad while subtle stuff looks great

Mostly interested in face/tits/ass but not excited about scars, replacing silicone, health effects