I [Finally!] Told my #Dad he needs to first presume that the restaurant staff (likely the owners or managers at small eateries) can speak English fluently, and to respectfully talk in full sentences.
I did this disarmingly by acknowledging intentions, but learned he isn't aware of his oppressive #CodeSwitching
He has a #TBI, but the presumptions are value based, and that's what needs to be disrupted.
#Pride my dad attended the everyone is Gay and God loves us sermon at church Tell 'em!!