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Mental health tip that is secretly antifa in action, that I learned from @DionRa:

When you are down on yourself or have intrusive thoughts or otherwise feel like "my brain hates me", "my brain is being mean" —

This has a source outside of you. It's not a part of you that randomly decided to make your life shit for no reason. That's not how brains or psyches or emotions or humans or mental health works. If you suffer, it's because someone MAKES you suffer!

You're being oppressed, you're being exploited, you're being neglected, your rights are trampled on, you're being threatened, you might suffer systemic violence and/or interpersonal abuse. You suffer from helplessness in the face of injustice and cruelty around you.

And I know many of you know this and I know it's often overwhelming to think about. I am living that right now.

But it is important to remember as often as you can, where that comes from. To try and get specific. Who in your life is hurting you or threatening or gaslighting? Who is exposing you to oppression? Who is abusing you at home or in activist spaces?

We can't fight our own brains and "win". We can't just accept suffering either. We can only work towards more safety and more freedom and more justice by getting as specific and unflinching as we can when tracing our sufferings back to their sources.

Then fight the source. Bring the fight to them. Just being clear in your own mind changes how interactions play out! It's not easy, but it IS worth it and it gets easier with every exercise.

Sometimes you can just disengage. Unfollow, block, give monosyllabic responses if you have to. You can cut your own parents out of your life if you want to. You can find ways to get by without bosses.

Otherwise, make them at least work for it. Don't give in easily to injustices, especially the very normalised ones. Be "unreasonable" and difficult! Use the privileges you do have. Keep asking "Why?" as if you're 4 again.

Just do what you feel like. Sit or lie down or jump around for no other reason than you feel like it. Eat what catches your fancy. Eat until you feel like doing something else, even if you're already "full" (diet culture messed up your perception of your body's needs!) Sing, laugh uproariously, swear and yell. Sigh. Just stare blankly into space if that feels peaceful. Sleep more.

Connect to your body, reconnect over and over again. Be THERE for yourself, be in yourself, in your body. Connect body, mind and action.

It’s days like today when I realise healing is still a work in progress. I woke feeling off and activated. Maybe the rain and heaviness in the air played a part. Things spiralled into an emotional flashback, and it hit hard.

For me, emotional flashbacks are sudden and overwhelming. There’s no clear image or memory, just a wave of dread, shame or fear that feels endless. It distorts the present and makes everything feel unsafe.

I tried grounding with touch and sound, holding something textured, humming, and saying where I was out loud. Stepping outside into the fresh cold air and patting my dog also helped. It all helped, slowly. I’m still tired, but also reminded that these days pass.

Daily rituals include coming up to this viewpoint first thing in the morning and last thing at night with a lunchtime visit very often too.

Having a dog who needs plenty of walks is our excuse but we are always keen to see what show is being presented. This sunset is yet another variation. Is you look down my timeline you will see many more…

#daily#hills#sunset

It’s after 5pm (somewhere)!

Time to clock out and tune in!

Muladhara Practice with Meditation

Want to feel connected to the earth and build core strength? Cultivate your sense of stability, security, and calm with this grounding 25-minute hatha practice. This practice closes with a meditation to help you feel present.

This practice is FREE.

#Yoga #DailyYoga #YogaEveryDay #HathaYoga #Meditation #RootChakra #FreeYoga #Hatha #Stability #Core #Calm #Grounding

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Thunder Honey Snow Studio · Muladhara Practice with MeditationWant to feel connected to the earth and build core strength? Cultivate your sense of stability, security, and calm with this grounding 25-minute hatha practice. This practice closes with a meditation to help you feel present.

Muladhara Practice with Meditation

Want to feel connected to the earth and build core strength? Cultivate your sense of stability, security, and calm with this grounding 25-minute hatha practice. This practice closes with a meditation to help you feel present.

Press play when you are ready to feel stable and strong. This practice is FREE.

#Yoga #DailyYoga #YogaEveryDay #HathaYoga #Meditation #RootChakra #FreeYoga #Hatha #Stability #CoreStrength #Calm #Grounding

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🇬🇧 #Grounding #talismans are simple #necklaces with a chain and a #handmade #stainedglass pendant showcasing real #roots bits 🌿
You can currently choose between 6 different pendants! Which one is your favorite? ✨
This design is one of my best sellers and you can find it here:
https://www.nature-spells.com/product-page/grounding-talisman-ii-necklace-stained-glass-roots-pendant

🇫🇷 Les talismans Grounding ( #ancrage ) sont des #colliers simples avec une chaîne et un pendentif #faitmain en #vitrail mettant en valeur de vrais morceaux de #racines 🌿
Vous pouvez actuellement choisir entre 6 pendentifs différents ! Lequel est votre préféré ? ✨
Ce design est l’un de mes best-sellers et vous pouvez le trouver ici :
https://fr.nature-spells.com/product-page/grounding-talisman-ii-necklace-stained-glass-roots-pendant

#GroundingTools #GroundingTechniques #PlantJewelry #PlantNecklace #Herbarium #StainedGlassJewelry #PressedPlants #Jewelry #Jewellery #TechniqueAncrage #OutilAncrage #BijouxPlantes #CollierPlante #Herbier #BijouxVitrail #PlantesPressées #Bijoux

Spent most of New Year's Eve and this morning in bed with a 101º fever. In my moments of lucidity I watched some of the nerdiest videos I could find:

- 1.9 Petabytes - Expanding the Synology NAS
- Why is the invisible part of this radio tower so important?
- Rescuing the TOTAL CONTROL from an abandoned dialup ISP
- How a Steam Locomotive Works (Union Pacific "Big Boy")
- Hacking a Motorola Automatic License Plate Reader - Firmware Extraction and Password Cracking

Highly recommend as background watching for nerds. vees.net/blog/2024/12/31/

vees.net · December 31, 2024 | Rob Carlson- 1.9 Petabytes - Expanding the Synology NAS - YouTube