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TBT 16 years ago I left the company I had started with a partner, then sold, then watched fail. Long story. I was on a trip to NYC to see about a new venture when I took a detour up into Vermont where I had worked as a counselor at a Quaker camp thirty years earlier. This is from a hike in that area, where I began to reconnect with my roots.

#tbt#vermont#forest

"Remorse we can feel. Regret is what we live. But consequence is what lingers" - Futurist Jim Carroll

Let's talk about the science of regret.

I mean, why not?

It seems like a timely topic.

And I've most recently covered The Science of Stupidity and The Science of Mistakes.

So why not The Science of Regret?

I'm on a roll here. Buyers remorse and all that.

What should we know about regret? What should we understand about its nature, impact, and how our brains process it? After all, we might find ourselves around people (at this moment in time, in particular) who are deep in their emotions of regret, and are now thinking about the consequences.

First, what is the definition and nature of regret? I asked Google Notebook after pulling in a large number of articles and YouTube videos related to the science of regret.

"Regret is a negative emotion stemming from a disappointing life event, unchangeable choices, or things said that can't be taken back. It is a painful experience that includes blaming ourselves for a bad outcome.

Ok, that makes sense.

It went on:

- It's a complex emotion involving sorrow and responsibility for the consequences of one's actions.

- Regret is related to choice; it is felt when a wrong decision is made and one wishes they had decided differently.

- Feelings of regret show increased activity in the medial orbitofrontal cortex of the brain.

OK, since it might seem there is some regret unfolding around some areas of the world right now, faster than ever before, what can we understand about the emotions of those who are going through it? The answer is ... um ... interesting.

How Regret Differs From Other Emotions:

- Regret involves comparison and blame, differing from disappointment, which lacks the element of personal fault.

- While guilt is responsibility for specific wrongdoing and shame is a feeling of being flawed, regret combines elements of both, along with a desire to rectify harm.

...along with a desire to rectify harm... that sounds promising.

But wait. There's a lot more about the science of regret that might help you understand today's world.

**#Regret** **#Consequences** **#Psychology** **#Reflection** **#Remorse** **#Growth** **#Decisions** **#Emotions** **#Learning** **#Redemption**

Original post: jimcarroll.com/2025/03/daily-i

Tom Medina : Un Voyage de Rédemption et d’Espoir

🎬 "Tom Medina" : voyage de rédemption dans la mystique Camargue. Un film de Tony Gatlif (2021) sur Tom, jeune en liberté surveillée, qui apprend le métier de gardian aux côtés d'Ulysse. Entre visions, chevaux et quête personnelle, un récit poétique sur la résilience et l'espoir. TomMedina #CinémaFrançais #Rédemption #CultureGitane #FilmCannes2021 #CamargueMagique #ArtDuRécit #Humanité Sorti en 2021, "Tom Medina" est un…

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Homo Hortus · Tom Medina : Un Voyage de Rédemption et d’Espoir🎬 « Tom Medina » : voyage de rédemption dans la mystique Camargue. Un film de Tony Gatlif (2021) sur Tom, jeune en liberté surveillée, qui apprend le métier de gardian aux côt…

The power is restored!!!!

Talked with big burly tired guys in a line of trucks and they said they were splicing the line and they didn’t lie.

The house temperature is already up to 56°F (10°C)!!

And that feels too hot now! (My Norwegian heritage must have kicked in).

Bringing the electronics online. Streaming news on a tv!!

Now, I can run the robot vacuum cleaners and mops, and the dishwasher!

What a fun brush with death. 😄