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It's always such an awesome gift when someone chooses to share their gender or sexuality exploration with me, and I strive to be a safe space for people to explore those parts of their identities.

So far in the last year, I've had people come out to me as bi, pan, ace, nonbinary, trans, and generally queer. And I'm so thankful for the trust that takes, and the opportunity to be a part of their journeys.

#LGBTQ+ #SafeSpace #Gratitude #Gender #Sexuality

Marquis de Sade's
𝟏𝟐𝟎 𝑫𝒂𝒚𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝑺𝒐𝒅𝒐𝒎
Pier Paolo Pasolini's final movie
𝑺𝒂𝒍𝒐̀
Kristi Noem's
𝑮𝒂𝒏𝒈 𝑩𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒆𝒅 𝑼𝒑

all explore themes of political #corruption, #consumerism, #authoritarianism, #nihilism, #immorality, #capitalism, #totalitarianism, #sadism, #sexuality, and #fascism, that is

Today's #USA

The Wikipedia entry:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sal%C3%B

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...pls share widely, "like", etc. FYI: most media outlets wouldn't have allowed me publish this piece as is. so if you appreciate that I make essays like this freely available online, please consider supporting me on Patreon for as little as $1/month!
patreon.com/juliaserano
#trans #transgender #LGBTQ #lgbtqia #feminism #psychology #gender #sexuality #science

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"The Vagina Museum is just one month away from closing. Forever. A perfect storm of circumstances means that we may have to close our doors permanently and cease all digital activities. But we're not going to go down without a fight. Save the Vagina Museum."

If you can, donate; if you can't, please share within your own circles.

#Menopause #Sexuality #VaginaMuseum

gofundme.com/f/btscc2

gofundme.comDonate to Save The Vagina Museum, organized by Vagina MuseumThe Vagina Museum is one month away from closing – forever The Vagina Museum will be forced t… Vagina Museum needs your support for Save The Vagina Museum

PsyPost: Erotic webcam viewers experience conflicting emotions and ethical tensions. “A new study exploring viewer experiences on erotic webcam sites reveals complex, often contradictory emotions among users, highlighting both positive and negative aspects for viewers and performers.”

https://rbfirehose.com/2025/03/12/psypost-erotic-webcam-viewers-experience-conflicting-emotions-and-ethical-tensions/

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I continue to be terrible at self-promotion and thus completely forgot to mention that the "Bloomsbury Handbook of Sex and Sexuality in Game Studies", for which I wrote a chapter on digital games and sexual health, has recently been published!

bloomsbury.com/us/bloomsbury-h

The book offers a wide range of perspectives on this widely neglected, but incredibly fascinating topic, so make sure to check it out if you're even remotely interested in exploring relationships and sexuality in interactive virtual spaces, queer representation, or the history of eroticism in the medium.

"In her preface #Hite argued that the canonical sexological works of the past 100 years – including the works of Sigmund #Freud, Alfred #Kinsey, and William #Masters and Virginia #Johnson – had constructed #femalesexuality “as essentially a response to male #sexuality and intercourse”. She set out to demonstrate that “female sexuality might have a complex nature of its own”.

Hite argued #sex was a #culturalinstitution, not a biological one. Historically, men had defined sex in terms of their own needs and preferences, then mandated their preferences as biological."

theconversation.com/orgasms-ar

The Conversation‘Orgasms are a marvellous happiness’. Shere Hite gave voice to female sexuality in a landmark book – but the backlash was fierceFirst published in 1976, The Hite Report has sold more than 50 million copies. The book is an extraordinarily rich artefact in the archive of human intimacy.

Hmmmm... Why am I having #DejaVu?

From 2022: "Vladimir #Putin has mentioned 'gender freedoms' more than once to justify #Russia’s war against #Ukraine and simultaneously crack down on its own citizens.

"Most directly, he alleged that Russian citizens who seek '#GenderFreedoms' (alongside foie gras and oysters) are part of the anti-Russian 'fifth column.'

"Gender and sexuality freedoms — or rights, as they are more typically called — are about #BodilyAutonomy, #diversity and #inclusivity. #Feminist and #LGBTQ+ activists assert that every human being deserves respect, recognition and equal rights regardless of their gender or sexuality.

"What’s the connection between Putin’s animosity toward Ukraine and toward #gender and #sexuality rights in Russia and around the world?

Gender and Putin’s regime

"Putin’s regime has increasingly relied on very conventional gender and sexual norms.

"When he first ascended to the presidency, image-makers used Putin’s #KGB background and penchant for physical fitness to frame him as a #macho #strongman who could reverse Russia’s waning power and 'remasculinize' the country after a decade of supposed geopolitical flaccidity in the wake of the #Soviet collapse.

"In other words, an inflexible and clearly #patriarchal notion of masculinity has been central to the Putin regime’s legitimacy.

"Russia’s foreign policy has relied on rigid gender norms as well. When Ukraine underwent its first pro-democracy revolution in 2004, Russian media questioned its leaders’ masculinity.

"Putin likewise used homophobic terms to dismiss #Georgia’s #RoseRevolution in 2003, responding to a reporter’s question by saying: 'A rose revolution — next they’ll come up with a light blue one.' In Russian, 'light blue' or goluboi is slang for “gay male.”

Gender and appealing to constituencies

"Putin has often been represented as the unquestioned leader of the pack ruling Russia — a masculinity-driven image.

"However, even as the leader of a personalist #dictatorship — a regime in which there are few institutional limits on the leader’s power — Putin must balance competing interests among significant elites and maintain at least the appearance of public support in order to be considered a legitimate ruler.

"Until 2020, Putin was using gendered language in his speeches to signal his alignment with a variety of elites and public constituencies that supported him. He was sending mixed signals to both relatively progressive Russians who value women’s roles in the workplace and to #conservatives wishing for a return to '#TraditionalFamilyValues,' in order to keep everyone in his camp.

"But after July 2021, when he published an essay contending Ukrainians and Russians are a single people, Putin no longer shied away from making sexist and LGBTQ+-phobic comments in prominent settings.

"At an October 2021 meeting of the Valdai Discussion Club — a Moscow-based think tank and discussion forum that Putin is closely associated with — he said teaching children about #GenderFluidity was 'truly monstrous' and 'verging on a crime against humanity.'"

Read more:
theconversation.com/vladimir-p
#USPol #TrumpIsPutinsPuppet #GBLTQRights #HumanRights #WomensRights #ToxicMasculinity #GenderFascists

The ConversationVladimir Putin, the czar of macho politics, is threatened by gender and sexuality rightsPutin has been consumed with presenting a hyper-macho image throughout his presidency. And in recent years, he’s ramped up sexist and LGBTQ-phobic rhetoric.